outgoing mail: pastel imperfections

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Perhaps the reason why the stereotypical fairy tale/ fantasy romance closes with the wedding scene is because the alternative–“and then after the marriage, they proceeded to live a quiet and wonderful life together as the princess spent her days reading primary source texts from the nineteenth century, studying the history of ceramics, and otherwise navigating her second year of graduate school”–while delightful to me, lacks the charm of the more celebratory happy ending.

Which is all to say: hello! In the two months since I vanished from this blog, I’ve enjoyed the wedding of my dreams, spent a two-day maritime mini-moon by the coast in Salem, and subsequently found myself very reluctant to return to real life. Living with my husband/best friend/former pen pal for the first time has been absolutely incredible, but it’s also coincided with a very busy fall semester. Needless to say, I’ve not only fallen behind on my letters once more, but have also barely had the chance to experience mail-related post-wedding activities – like sending out thank-you cards and announcements!

Because we “eloped” (which is to say we had 10 people in attendance at our enchanted Hobbiton-esque venue), there are many friends and relatives around the globe who were not able to share in the festivities, and we planned on sending out some photos and cards to spread the word in a way that’s a little more personal than a Facebook post. Combining my husband’s illustrations with some Tolkien-friendly typefaces quickly resulted in the ultimate elopement postcard! To keep them safe, though, we will nevertheless send them in envelopes – which I took upon myself to create this past long weekend.

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the last homely house

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The last time we visited this enchanting corner of the Berkshires, the stale snow of late March covered pond and stones and grass alike. Seeing each corner of these historic gardens enlivened by blossoms, lilypads, and trees took my breath away – and made me even happier to think that this place will soon become the site for a most important romantic occasion.

Consider this stream-of-consciousness (and intentionally vague) post a small opportunity for strange escapism – I hope these photographs can take you away from whatever troubles you for a moment! The common impulse is to compare this property to a hobbit-home in the Shire: but I think the experience it creates for the weary traveler has much more in common with Rivendell, “the last homely house…”

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the lord of the weddings: tolkienesque bridal charm bracelets

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With our wedding just over a month away (seriously!), I find myself overwhelmed with strange desires – a bizarre attachment to the notion of programs that double as hand-fans, a craving for customized bubble wands, and a yearning for a stereotypical T-shirt printed with some variation of “Bride.” (Even though I never wear T-shirts: not even Emily Dickinson ones.)

A little while ago, I became fixated on the notion of wearable gifts for the “wedding party” – which consists of me, my mom, and my sister – that would capture the spirit of the event and lend our appearances some small element of cohesion. I spent hours transfixed by the bridal charm bracelets on Etsy, but nothing really won me over: and, to be honest, I became quite convinced that I could make one myself.

Enter these Tolkien-inspired bracelets, which I cobbled together from bulk-bought charms curated by a whimsical eye!

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the lord of the weddings: our diy wedding invitations

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Like Sauron forging the most powerful ring for his own purposes, it’s probably no surprise that a snail mailer would reserve her most delighted crafting energy for her wedding invitations. (Except, you know, these cards are much less evil.) Since my future husband and I met by happenstance in the glorious mail art universe, elaborate invitations seemed essential: even though only about 10 people will attend our nuptials.

Of course, the wedding stationery market relies on bulk orders, and since most vendors wouldn’t let us purchase anything under a minimum of 25, we decided to assemble our own! Some laser-cut lace bases, an enchanting custom design by my fiance, and jewel-like wax seals proved the necessary ingredients for invitation alchemy.

(This marks the first post in what will no doubt become a series of wedding-related posts on my blog! Our theme is part Tolkien-inspired, part “elaborate fairy tea party in the forest,” and entirely us. We’re a crafty couple on a budget with a shared flair for the whimsical, so expect starry-eyed DIYs in great numbers!) 

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I’ll admit to some initial healthy skepticism about these inexpensive laser-cut card bases, but they arrived looking appropriately pearlescent and adequately detailed.

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Creating a unique design for the card itself proved easy enough – considering that I’m lucky enough to have a talented illustrator as my betrothed! (The otter must be wondering why disembodied text has appeared in the midst of his quiet pond.)

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Though I’m sure this comes as a surprise to many, I do not actually possess a wax seal kit of my own. (Yes, it’s right up there on my “impractical anachronistic novelties to buy one day” list, perhaps just a step below a flower press and a spinning wheel!) I found a wonderful seller on Etsy* who offered elegant seals with adjustable backings that fit our needs perfectly.

*This is not a sponsored post, I promise! The quality of her service and the impeccably fast shipping inspired me to share my sources.

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We ordered the elven fern design in green and gold–naturally–but the seller added in a few extra freebies: this stunning pink rose seal may never leave my clutches.

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Together, they make a fairly complementary set, don’t you think? I added the piece of gold card as a barrier to keep the otter-filled contents a surprise to the recipients.

Now if only I could master the art of perfect Hobbit-inspired calligraphy…